This thing kept coming back to haunt me whenever i had time to think about my friends (or wat i call used-to-be friends) of my past. Be it those who are/were important in my life, those who had left me deep impressions regardless of fond or foul memories. I know clinging on to the past is no good, but they just keep on coming back to me.
People come and go, it's part and parcel of life. Meeting new people is easy but maintaining a friendship requires both parties to put in tat little bit of effort to make sure tat it lasts, just like a BGR. I am someone who doesn't really wan to put in too much effort if i know something just won't work out, so when i see no results when i tried putting in effort in maintaining one seemingly feeble friendship, tat 'friend' of mine will just become an acquaintance. It's easy tat way isn't it?
This might sound like jus an emo freak trying to complain about how people neglect him but it's not. Ultimately it's all about communications. A simple "how are you today?", "wan to go out tgt?" or even something tat seems really not relevant to u in life like "tobey mcguire quits spiderman 4" means something. Like someone close in my life told me, this means tat those who msg u are thinking of you, at the very least.
Apologies to my friends whom i had neglected these past few weeks/months, things had changed in my life and i'm not as free as i use to be already. But i'll try to make time for u guys as hard as i'm trying to make time for myself.
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