E-30 (Explicit 30)?

As people gets older, there will be more responsibilities for them to carry, like a burden tat will never go away until the day they die (and the burden passes on to their family members and so on). It's always freaking scary to faced new 'burdens' as u come across them but humans were built in such a way that we adapt to things quickly and tat's how we had evolved. The only problem is how we adapt to it.

I've never really think about these things until i've completed my NS and it really knocked me hard on the head. It's always walk-a-step-at-a-time-and-see-wat's-next for me. Didn't really see the importance of money since i don't fork them out of my own pocket paying utilities bill, bills of any other stuffs, studies, groceries, etc (but soon will b experiencing not one, not two but all of them!). Never thought about investments or marriage in the near future as well cos it jus seems so farfeteched. Mayb it's the fastest wat to earn money the smart way but i guess i'm still not mature enough for these kind of stuff (cos i'm too lazy to care bout these kind of stuff, a bad point tat i hav to admit, T_T).

Talking about marriage, a friend of my grandma asked me if i'm getting married. I was quite surprised by that question cos i don't even hav a girlfriend yet and of course, it's not practical to get married now. And she even asked if she will be invited when i get married, i didn't answer cos i didn't how, dotz. Weird for her to hav asked in the 1st place.

For me, i will not hav a wedding banquet at some hotel or restaurant and invite millions of ppl when tat day of my life comes. Cos everytime i attend wedding dinners, i feel tat it's stupid and not really worth the money doin tat. The groom and the bride look like clowns performing on stage for their friends and family and of cos, ppl they donno. There will b wastage of food and also the small amount of ang bao $$ to barely cover the cost for the dinner. Everything i've posted are jus personal comments, sorry for any rudeness or such.

What i think is, love is between 2 people and marriage is between 2 family, not a million people (i.e friends of auntie/uncle tat u don't even know). I would rather save up the money for honeymoon or on something meaningful (mayb education fee for the kids? house? bills?).

So a question back to u all, will u b having a grand wedding-of-another-century wedding banquet, simple buffet with close friends and family or skip everything other than jus the engagement and going to ROM part? And of cos 敬茶是少不了的！ :P

p.s no nudity is posted even though it's 'explicit' (i know it's lame, but i'm not limping, LOL)